If you’ve read The first date and its end, you may have wondered how Mister succeeded in his quest of a second date. This is the story why I said yes.
I was having a tea at a friend’s home, Aurore, few days after the much talked about first date, which I of course had told her everything about, when she stopped me and said : “You should give him a second date. You say he doesn’t appeal to you but you’re always talking about him. He must have something given the fact that usually you never talked about the guys you might meet. You know, when I met P***** for the first time it was during a birthday party of a common friend. I hated him. I thought he was far too pretentious and I didn’t want to see him ever again ! And now, we’re engaged to each other and gonna marry this summer. Sometimes, the first sight isn’t the best. Honestly, if there’s only the fact of his smocking that bothers you, it might be worse. It would be a shame to miss something for this kind of detail.”
It made me think about it. Aurore has ever given me good advice. What if she were true ? After all, I won’t lost something to give him a chance…
Moreover, the fact that he dared say me “you talk too much, shut up and let me talk” pleased me. Not really at the very time but I knew myself enough to know that I would bore with a guy who would have pandered to my every whim.
So, Let’s have a second date !
C’est un article caché ca? Je suis pas sur comment je l’ai trouvé. Mais il repond à une question que je volais poser après avoir lu les textes du 2em rencontre. Qu’est-ce que quelqu’un d’autre disait (amis/ frère/parents…). Souvent il y des amis qui te montrent «l’autre côté». Ils t’aide à garder un peu d’objéctivité 🙂 En cas ca arrivait inversement que chez toi – et je restais heureusement non influencé. En fin de compte c’est toujours ta décision! Et c’est joliment à lire que tu as pris la bonne décision.
Wow j’ai lu toutes vos chroniques, j’ai versé ma petite larme à la fin ! Vous êtes tout beaux tous les 3, plein de bonheurs et de bisous ! =*
Merci pour le retour.
Coucou Elodie et Thomas ! je sais qu’o se connait pas mais je voulais juste vous dire que moi aussi j’ai rencontré ma copine sur Meetic et on est trop heureux ensemble ! Restez heureux ! <3